{"id":4246,"date":"2021-06-21T14:18:07","date_gmt":"2021-06-21T18:18:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/pleasantdaleblog\/?p=4246"},"modified":"2021-06-25T14:20:43","modified_gmt":"2021-06-25T18:20:43","slug":"what-you-need-to-know-about-gender-fluid-weddings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/what-you-need-to-know-about-gender-fluid-weddings\/","title":{"rendered":"What You Need to Know About Gender-Fluid Weddings"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Gender-Fluid<\/a>The wedding industry is largely heteronormative (favoring cisgender heterosexual couples) in its traditions and can feel somewhat exclusive to those who do not fit the mold. \u00a0With more people bravely coming out as gender-fluid, there needs to be space for every couple and their wedding party to feel respected, celebrated, and represented. As we celebrate pride month, here is everything you need to know about gender-fluid weddings, and important information to keep in mind when planning or attending a gender-fluid wedding.<\/p>\n

A Brief Explanation of Gender Fluidity<\/strong><\/h2>\n

As a relatively new term, many people do not yet understand the meaning behind gender fluidity. Identifying as gender-fluid means gender identity and expression change over time. The change varies in intensity of expression and identity. Many people will make the common mistake of conflating gender fluid with non-binary<\/em>, which means the person does not identify exclusively as male or female.<\/p>\n

Using Proper Pronouns<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Labels can be confining and problematic. Therefore, it is important to always ask a person what their preferred pronouns are before making any assumptions. Common pronouns are he\/him or she\/her, and non-binary pronouns are they\/them. In many cases, we make the assumption based on a person\u2019s expression. To avoid any incorrect labeling and awkward interactions, make it known throughout the wedding planning process what the couple\u2019s preferred pronouns are.<\/p>\n

Gender-Neutral Wedding Party Titles<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Weddings often incorporate \u201cMr. and Mrs.\u201d decor, \u201chis and hers\u201d gifts, and involve many gender-specific titles and roles. Changing small titles to be gender-inclusive can greatly reduce stress for the wedding party and the guests. In a gender-fluid wedding ceremony, the couple may choose the term \u201cmarrier,\u201d \u201cpartner,\u201d or \u201cnewlyweds\u201d rather than the traditional \u201cbride and groom.\u201d<\/p>\n

Similarly, bridesmaids and groomsmen may choose the title of \u201cwedding party\u201d or \u201cattendants.\u201d Instead of flower girl, try using \u201cflower person\u201d or \u201cflower child.\u201d Rather than opting for a maid of honor and best man, try \u201cperson of honor\u201d or \u201cbest person.\u201d There are many more gender-neutral terms and each person may choose something different.<\/p>\n

Making Traditions More Inclusive<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ultimately, it is up to the newlyweds to decide how they want their wedding. There is always a gender non-conforming solution to meet the gender-specific expectations of traditional wedding events. Instead of choosing what dresses and suits the wedding party will wear, try choosing a color palette and allowing them to find the formal attire they are most comfortable wearing. When introducing the couple at the reception, instead of welcoming \u201cMr. and Mrs.,\u201d try welcoming \u201cthe newlywed couple.\u201d Gender fluid weddings require a small shift in mindset to ensure everyone has a positive experience.<\/p>\n

Celebrating Gender-Fluid Weddings with the LGBTQIA+ Community <\/strong><\/h2>\n

LGBTQIA+ deserve to celebrate weddings without feeling deterred by traditional heterosexual and cisgender norms, and with ultimate freedom of expression. So staying educated about genderfluidity is important to a successful, inclusive, and fun wedding. Each couple\u2019s ceremony is going to look completely different. At Knowles Hospitality, we take the time to understand each of our unique clients to provide them with the best wedding experience possible. We are here to exceed your expectations and bring your dream wedding to life! Connect with our wedding team today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The wedding industry is largely heteronormative (favoring cisgender heterosexual couples) in its traditions and can feel somewhat exclusive to those who do not fit the mold. \u00a0With more people bravely coming out as gender-fluid, there needs to be space for every couple and their wedding party to feel respected, celebrated, and represented. As we celebrate […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[760,666],"tags":[761,703,668,374],"class_list":["post-4246","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gender-fluid-weddings","category-lgbt-wedding","tag-gender-fluid-wedding","tag-gender-neutral-wedding-party","tag-lgbt-wedding","tag-wedding-colors"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4246","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/27"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4246"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4246\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4246"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4246"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4246"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}