{"id":589,"date":"2011-12-11T13:30:23","date_gmt":"2011-12-11T13:30:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.themanorrestaurant.com\/blog\/?p=589"},"modified":"2023-01-03T14:32:33","modified_gmt":"2023-01-03T19:32:33","slug":"who-attends-the-wedding-rehearsal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pleasantdale.com\/blog\/who-attends-the-wedding-rehearsal\/","title":{"rendered":"Who Attends the Wedding Rehearsal?"},"content":{"rendered":"

As New Jersey\u2019s top wedding venues<\/a><\/strong>, the Pleasantdale Chateau<\/a>, The Manor and the Ram\u2019s Head Inn have been home to countless wedding rehearsals<\/strong>, and we\u2019ve seen the glowing bride and groom prepare for the biggest day of their lives. Who\u2019s invited to attend this very important practice run? We have the wedding etiquette<\/strong>-approved list of who needs to be there\u2026and who isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

First, obviously, the bride and groom<\/strong> need to be present, so that they can not just learn what will happen during each section of the wedding ceremony<\/strong>, but so that they can co-create the personalized ceremony of their dreams. Today\u2019s bride and groom<\/strong> have a voice at their wedding rehearsal<\/strong>, sometimes switching the order of ceremony elements, re-pairing bridesmaids and groomsmen and otherwise designing the most important part of their wedding day.<\/p>\n

Next, the bridal party <\/strong>members, and their guests, are invited to the rehearsal dinner. <\/strong>Bridesmaids and groomsmen need to learn where they\u2019ll wait, how they\u2019ll walk down the aisle, what they\u2019ll do during special moments of the ceremony, and how they\u2019ll participate in the recessional. The maid of honor<\/strong> will learn when she\u2019ll need to adjust the bride\u2019s train, hold her flowers, and otherwise be at her service. Why the bridal party <\/strong>guests? According to wedding etiquette<\/strong>, it\u2019s proper to invite them to the rehearsal dinner<\/strong>, so it just works out conveniently to let them attend the wedding rehearsal <\/strong>itself.<\/p>\n

Child bridal party<\/strong> attendants, flower girls and ringbearers, are also invited, along with their parents, so that the little ones can practice how they\u2019ll walk and where they\u2019ll stand, so that they\u2019re comfortable and confident in what\u2019s expected of them.<\/p>\n

The wedding planner<\/a><\/strong> is invited, if you\u2019ve hired one, and may be the person in charge of instructing everyone on each element of the ceremony. The officiant<\/strong> and his or her guest will obviously be there as well, to guide the proceedings and to work with the bride and groom<\/strong> in adjusting any wording, the vows, or other special portions of the ceremony.<\/p>\n

Musical performers may also be invited to the wedding rehearsal<\/strong>, although that\u2019s not a Must. Your musicians may require that they attend the rehearsal, so that they can learn the cues of when they\u2019re playing during each portion of the ceremony, so ask your musical experts what their rehearsal <\/strong>policies are, and what you may have to pay them to attend.<\/p>\n

Ceremony participants, such as those performing readings or cultural rites, are smartly invited to the wedding rehearsal<\/strong>, so that they too learn when they\u2019ll be expected to stand up and walk to the microphone, and so that they can practice speaking their material on-site.<\/p>\n

Parents and grandparents are also invited to the rehearsal, as a special event to witness, as are additional special family members. The smaller the circle of people at the wedding rehearsal<\/strong>, the more efficient the practice session will be, and the sooner you can all get to your lovely rehearsal dinner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Thank you!<\/p>\n

Rolf Shick, Banquet Manager, The Manor<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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